Frequently Asked Questions

Unit 1, Admiral Place High St N Dunstable LU6 1LW United Kingdom You'll find us just off the high street behind a pink door, under a purple 'PP sign'. Next to the gym! Here is the exact location on What3Words: https://w3w.co/strike.proud.news

Couples and solo females with membership or a valid photo ID can purchase tickets on the door. Solo males must book their tickets online to be connected to their membership. Please note, door prices are £10 more than online prices, so it's always best to book in advance online. Please check the website beforehand to ensure the event is not sold out.

20:00 - Doors open 20:00 - 21:00 - Dirty Hour (2 for £15 cocktails and double spirits & mixers) 23:30 - Last entry 03:00 - Bar closes * This may differ slightly per party - please check the event listing for details.

We do allow private hire of the venue for parties, photoshoots, private play sessions, filming and other purposes. If you're interested please fill in our form here.

We have a broad average age range from mid 20s to mid 40s but we warmly welcome anyone over the age of 21.

At our events, you can expect a sexy yet, welcoming atmosphere where like-minded individuals and couples gather to connect, explore, and enjoy a night of fun, sensuality, and excitement. Whether you're here to socialize, dance, relax, or explore your fantasies, the evening is designed for you to enjoy at your own pace and comfort level. Our events feature high-energy vibes, stylish surroundings, and a friendly crowd of well dressed and respectful individuals who share the desire for a sensual yet exciting party experience. You’ll have access to premium facilities, including bars, lounge areas, and private spaces, with options to enjoy wet facilities and changing rooms as well We prioritize discretion, respect, and mutual consent—you’re never pressured into anything you’re not comfortable with. Whether you're mingling or participating, you're part of a sensual, safe space where everyone can feel free to be themselves. Expect an unforgettable night that’s all about making connections and embracing pleasure in a stylish, secure environment.

Absolutely not! At Penthouse Playrooms, or any swingers event or club, play is never guaranteed with any person. Our events are about creating a respectful, consensual, and safe environment where everyone can explore their desires at their own pace. Consent is key! Verbal consent for watching, touching and playing is required at all times, and it can be revoked at any point—whether it's for a single moment or for the rest of the night. This also applies to group scenarios. You should have verbal consent from everyone involved in the scene to get involved. No one should feel pressured into anything, and all interactions are based on mutual agreement. Everyone is encouraged to communicate openly and honestly about their boundaries and desires. Remember, every person at our events is there to enjoy the atmosphere, make connections, and engage in experiences that align with their comfort level. If you're ever unsure or need to set boundaries, it’s always okay to speak up. Play is a privilege, not a right, and it only happens when everyone involved feels comfortable and enthusiastic.

Dress Code: We encourage you to dress smartly, as if you were heading to a stylish nightclub or bar, or even take it up a notch with something sexier. The key is to wear what makes you feel sexy, confident, and liberated—while staying in your comfort zone and true to your style. Many women may choose to dress down to lingerie or risqué outfits as the night progresses, while men may opt for boxers. However, dress down is never enforced! If you’d like to change into more comfortable footwear, flip flops, sliders, or sandals are great options. Please do not go barefoot inside the club for your own safety. What to Avoid: No light-colored/blue, bleached, or ripped jeans. Dark and black jeans, chinos, and trousers are acceptable. No shorts, vests, or sportswear (including hoodies and sweatshirts). No work boots, hiking boots, crocs, uggs, or training/sports shoes. For regular events, smart dress trainers (the type you'd wear to work) are allowed—no athletic, canvas, hi-top, walking, hiking, or training shoes. For upscale and vetted events (e.g., Hot Fever Nights, MAGIQUE, Secret Desires, Birthdays, NYE, and Valentines), it is STRICTLY NO TRAINERS. Let your inner allure shine through and come dressed to impress (or undress)! Please note, if you do not follow these dress code rules, you may be asked to adjust before being allowed entry. In some cases, if you cannot comply with the dress code, you may be asked to leave without a refund.

ID/Proof of Age Make sure to bring valid photo identification (passport, driver’s license, etc.) to confirm your age and identity. This is required for entry to ensure everyone meets our age requirements . Comfortable Shoes/Footwear While we encourage stylish dress, comfort is also key. Flip flops or sliders are a great option for when you're ready to relax or change environments. A Positive Attitude Attitude is everything! Come with an open mind, a friendly vibe, and an enthusiastic attitude—ready to enjoy the night, make connections, and embrace the experience. Lingerie or Risqué Outfits (Optional) Many of our guests choose to dress down throughout the night, so consider bringing lingerie, sexy outfits, or other risqué attire that makes you feel confident and liberated. Personal Hygiene Essentials Please remember to bring personal hygiene items like deodorant, mints, or any other essentials to keep you fresh and feeling your best throughout the evening. We also provide shower facilities for your convenience. Condoms/Protection While we encourage safe, consensual play, we always highly recommend bringing your own protection (e.g., condoms, dental dams). It’s important to feel secure and prepared for any intimate encounters. We also have protection available to purchase at the bar and reception areas. Towel (Optional) If you plan to use any shared spaces or facilities (such as hot tubs or showers), it’s a good idea to bring a towel for comfort and cleanliness. Towels are also available to hire from reception. Sex Toys (Optional) If you enjoy using sex toys, feel free to bring your own! Whether it's something for personal use or shared fun (with consent), having your favorite toy on hand can add to the experience. Just be mindful of hygiene, and remember to always respect others' boundaries. A Sense of Adventure This is an event to explore, connect, and enjoy yourself. Bring your sense of adventure and a willingness to experience something new in a safe, respectful, and exciting atmosphere. NOTE: Your bag will be searched upon entry. DO NOT bring alcohol or any outside food or drink, we have a licensed bar onsite with drinking tap water available if required. The use of illegal drugs is STRICTLY forbidden. DO NOT bring chewing gum, this ends up on furniture, in beds, on the floor and even in hair. This will be confiscated on entry.

There is absolutely no expectation to get involved in play! You are more than welcome to attend simply to socialize, have a drink, enjoy the music, dance, and relax in a welcoming, open atmosphere. Whether you’re here to mingle with like-minded people, enjoy the vibes, or just unwind and chill in the hot tubs, the night is completely yours to enjoy however you like. Some guests may prefer to just enjoy the social aspect and the energy of the event—and that’s perfectly okay! However, we do encourage all guests to make an effort to engage and interact with others. While you're not required to engage in any sexual activity, being a “lurker” can make others feel uncomfortable. If you come just to stand in the background without interacting or contributing to the positive energy of the night, we may ask you to adjust your behavior. In some cases, if a complaint is made about your lack of engagement or behavior, you could be asked to leave the event. We want everyone to feel comfortable and respected, and creating an environment where socializing and respectful interactions are encouraged is key. So whether you want to sit back and observe, chat with new people, or connect on a deeper level, just remember: it's all about having fun and respecting others' space.

To sign up for membership, you must apply online—you cannot sign up at the door. Here’s how to get started: Create an Online Account First, visit our website and sign up for an online account. You’ll need to set a password, so make sure to remember it for later use. Complete Your Membership Application After creating your account, you will be invited to complete your membership application. This includes submitting your personal details as per your legal ID. Submit Required Documents As part of the application process, you’ll need to upload copies of your photo ID (e.g., passport or driver’s license) and proof of address (e.g., utility bill or bank statement). Wait for Approval Once your application is submitted, it will be reviewed. If everything checks out, you will be approved and receive your membership details. Click here to start your membership application: If you have any questions or run into issues during the application process, feel free to reach out to us!

The membership application process can take up to 3 days for approval. Once your application is approved, you will receive a confirmation email with a link to select and purchase your membership plan. Your membership will be active as soon as payment is confirmed.

Yes, couples and solo females can purchase non-member tickets for most events. Simply visit our Upcoming Events page to check availability and buy tickets. However, solo males are required to be members in order to most Penthouse Playrooms and KTs events. In some cases non-member solo male tickets are available for INVITED males only. Invites are sent by official Penthouse Playrooms staff only. If you're not on the invited guest list you will be denied entry and face a ban from the venue. NOTE: All KTs events (Kinky Tease BDSM) require either a KTs membership or a full Penthouse Playrooms membership to attend. Non-members will be denied entry.

Solo males are required to be members in order to most Penthouse Playrooms and KTs events. In some cases non-member solo male tickets are available for INVITED males only. Invites are sent by official Penthouse Playrooms staff only. If you're not on the invited guest list you will be denied entry and face a ban from the venue. Please note, you will only be accepted if you meet our requirements and pass our vetting process below. You must have a photo verified profile on sites such as SwingHub or Fabswingers. You must have a number of recent and good meet verifications/validations from other verified members. You must have a clear face photo available on your profile to validate your application.

No, couples tickets are only available to those with a couple membership. However, you can still attend as a couple by purchasing a non-member couple ticket. Please note: We expect all couples to arrive together, stay together, and play together. If any complaints arise about a male acting as a single, both individuals may be asked to leave the event.

Yes, we have wet facilities available, including hot tubs and showers for your enjoyment and relaxation. You do not need to bring towels, as we provide them for your convenience. However, if you prefer to bring your own for personal use, you are welcome to do so. We want to ensure your experience is as comfortable and enjoyable as possible!

Yes, we have lockers and a changing room available for your convenience. You can securely store your belongings and change into your event attire. There is a £10 refundable deposit required for the lockers. Please note, we only accept cash (no card!) for the deposit, which will be refunded when you return the key. We want to ensure you have a comfortable and seamless experience, so feel free to use the facilities as needed throughout the evening.

Yes, we have a list of recommended local hotels available on our About page. Click here for details. For parking, there is limited parking directly outside Penthouse. However, we recommend using the free car park located just across the road from the Tesco petrol station at Westfield Carpark (11 Westfield Rd, Dunstable LU6 1LF) for more convenient parking.

Yes, we have a comfortable smoking area outside in the garden courtyard which is heated in winter.